Sunday, March 9, 2008 

Think Like a Steward, Perform Like a Patriot

Political correctness - at least the contorted, silly version - is not high on my list of obligatory behaviors. I've certainly never deliberately used language likely to offend or disrespect, but I generally refuse to participate in society's love affair with euphemisms.

For me, a garbage collector is a garbage collector, not a sanitation engineer. Collecting garbage may not be glamorous, but its a necessary and honorable occupation. If my garbage collector went on strike Id miss him a lot sooner than Id miss a sportscaster or politician who walked out on the job. But theres at least one verbal adjustment that I gladly make. In describing someones employee or assistant, I no longer use the term subordinate.

Oh, the word subordinate certainly doesnt have the negative history of words with racist or sexist overtones. But it does have a discriminatory nuance or two. For some people, the word subordinate smacks of inferiority or subservience. They believe the term implies that the leader is superior and the subordinate is, well, inferior. So to avoid the linguistic discomfort, I often use the term direct report because it helps clarify the relationship without suggesting lowliness or inadequacy.

Technically speaking, of course, everyone is a subordinate. Even the CEO is subordinate to the board of directors and the shareholders. (Some CEOs dont act that way, but its still true.)

In typical hierarchical organizations, though, the term subordinate is troublesome in other ways. The subordinate paradigm breeds passivity, not proactivity.

See if you recognize some of the subordinate paradigms telltale expressions:

I only work here.

Youll have to ask someone else.

Thats against our policy.

My supervisor wont let me do that.

Management made that decision.

Im not authorized to do this.

As long as people think of themselves as subordinates, their decisions and actions are governed by someone elses approval, policies, and habits. But absentee leadership is no leadership at all.

My colleague Dave Hanna tells a story that illustrates the sometimes sad results of the subordinate paradigm.

Dave was sitting in a rental car shuttle late one day at the Kansas City Airport. Just as the van was about to depart for the airline terminals a man ran up, huffing and puffing, and pounded on the door. The driver opened the door and the man boarded, looking desperate. Thanks so much, he said to the driver. Ive been stuck on the interstate for the past hour because of an accident. My plane is scheduled to leave in seven minutes. Can you get me to the gate in time to catch it?

What airline are you on, sir? the driver asked.

United.

Oh, thats in terminal C, sir. We have to stop at A and B before we go to C.

Please! This is the last flight to my home tonight! the man pleaded.

At this point Dave and the one other passenger in the van glanced at one another and answered the passengers unspoken question. Maam, its okay with us if you take this gentleman to his terminal first. Our flights are later.

The driver replied firmly, Im sorry, sir, but our management sent out a bulletin stressing that under no circumstances are we to deviate from going to A, then B, then C in that exact order. So the van dutifully stopped at terminal A, then at B, then finally headed for C. This is an example of mindless compliance.

Where safety and other critical issues are at stake, compliance is of course very important. But in many instances, absolute, undeviating compliance is little more than a cop out a handy excuse for not stretching to provide good service.

The steward paradigm is a much more productive mind-set. While the subordinates paradigm is I just work here, Im really not in charge, the stewards paradigm is I own this job. My role is to help others in every reasonable way.

Dave illustrates with another story, this one also involving a shuttle van. He and three colleagues arrived in Houston at 2 a.m., bone-weary and eager to get to their rental car. Getting no response on the telephone hot line in the terminal, they walked outside to see if the shuttles were still running. They were. But after waiting long enough for other rental car shuttles to pass by twice, their shuttle failed to appear.

Finally, Dave approached the Avis van driver and asked, Is (Company X) still open? Yes, the Avis driver replied. I saw people in their office as I came over. Then, recognizing the plight of these non-customers, the Avis driver offered to drop Dave and his friends off at his competitors gate.

The focus of subordination is about taking orders and unwavering compliance with policy. The focus of stewardship is about earning and maintaining trust and proactively looking for ways to serve. Subordinates tend to operate from a have to mentality. Stewards tend to operate from a want to mentality.

In an atmosphere of stewardship, something wonderful emerges: discretionary excellence. Discretionary excellence comes when people do the right and reasonable thing even when nobody is watching.

As Dave Hanna points out, the steward paradigm is the antidote for the lack of faith in todays institutions. It elevates our thinking from the details of the moment and keeps our focus on maintaining our stakeholders trust.

If (when) situations arise that were not foreseen when policies and procedures were defined, the steward paradigm enables us to adapt to fulfill our mission, to serve the customer, to cut costs, to eliminate bottlenecks, and to do the myriad of other things so critical to robust performance. Its been said that the difference between a politician and a patriot is that a politician looks ahead to the next election while a patriot looks ahead to the next generation.

So it is with those of us who work in organizations. We must see ourselves not as someones subordinate, but as stewards serving the needs of others today and beyond.

Dr. Rodger Dean Duncan is founder and president of The Duncan Company, specializing in organizational effectiveness and leadership development since 1972. His client roster ranges from American Airlines, IBM, Consolidated Edison, and Sprint, to Black & Veatch Engineering, eBay, Federal Reserve Bank, and presidential cabinet officers in two White House administrations. In addition to his consulting practice, Dr. Duncan headed worldwide communication for Campbell Soup Company and was vice president of Kerr-McGee, a global energy company. The Duncan Company, now headquartered in the Kansas City, Missouri, metropolitan area, has affiliates in North America, Europe, and Australia. Top-selling author Stephen Covey calls Dr. Duncans work on leadership "brilliantly insightful, inspiring profound, yet user friendly visionary, yet practical." Duncan earned a Ph.D. in communication and organizational dynamics at Purdue University. For more information, click on http://www.DuncanWorldwide.com To subscribe free: http://www.duncanworldwide.com/report.asp



 

Crystal Meth Addiction Treatable Among Gay Men

Crystal Meth Addiction Treatable Among Gay Men Tailor-made addiction treatment programs said to be most effective A report by the Gay and Lesbian Medical Association has called into question the common belief that crystal meth addiction is untreatable. Titled Breaking the Grip: Treating Crystal Methamphetamine Addiction Among Gay and Bisexual Men, the report virtually debunks the widely held perception by health care professionals that crystal meth addicts are a lost cause. Released on Nov. 30 in conjunction with National Crystal Methamphetamine Awareness Day, the report provides guidance for health care providers, emphasizing the importance of tailor-made addiction treatment programs that assess the needs of gay and bisexual men, a demographic 10 times more likely to use crystal meth than the general population, according to the study.

The reports findings were extracted from strategically recruited focus groups in five American cities thought to have widespread crystal meth use among gay men. The makeup of the groups consisted of health care providers experienced in treating gay men for crystal meth addiction, clinical researchers and health policy experts. While the intractability of crystal meth addiction is noted throughout the study, it also suggests that dependence on crystal meth is not insurmountable, given the optimal environment. Unfortunately, barriers to achieving abstinence from crystal meth are numerous, beginning with the misconceptions of both clinicians and the general populace. Many people believe gay men use crystal methamphetamine for sex, when in fact individuals vary greatly in the antecedents and frequency of use, the situations surrounding use and motivations for using, the study found. Such social externalities as homophobia, fear, stigma and public discourse maligning the lifestyles of gay men are all factors found to contribute to what the study calls psychosocial pressures potentially leading to meth use.

Focus groups also found that gay men are often drawn to the escapism of the drug, using crystal meth as a coping mechanism for depression and anxiety about becoming physically unattractive due to aging. They highlighted the allure of crystal meth for HIV-positive gay men as allowing them to embark on drug holidays to escape feelings about having a chronic illness. A consensus among the focus groups was that the need for culturally competent health care professionals, aware of the nuances and conditions unique to crystal meth use among gay and bisexual men, are vital in providing effectiveaddiction treatment. The focus groups discussed anecdotal reports of staff in some addiction treatment programs refusing to permit clients to discuss their sexual practices, and criticized that not only is this culturally incompetent care to gay men, but it also prevents sex, one of the most common and powerful triggers for relapse, from ever being addressed and dealt with therapeutically. One of the many conclusions drawn upon in the study is that crystal meth addiction can be overcome if triggers are discussed openly, equipping the addict with the tools necessary to combat urges to relapse.

If you are looking for a gay drug rehab, gay alcohol rehab gay addiction treatment program specializing in the addiction treatment of crystal meth, go to www.gay-rehab.com or call 1-800-511-9225

Joanthan Huttner is a principal with Lakeview Health Systems, a gay friendly alcohol and drug rehab. Freedom Rings is the name of the gay addiction treatment program.



 

Endearing Our Enemies

Endearing our enemies
Quite a new concept indeed
Not for Jesus
He whom did bleed
For those who crucified Him
Spit in His face
Mocked and ridiculed Him
To their own disgrace
Nevertheless He endured
Their beatings and belittling remarks
Saying, "Father forgive them.
For they know not what they do."
Perhaps such a love
Is incomprehensible to you.
Not to our gentle Savior Jesus Christ
Who for humanity
Unashamedly gave His life
Preferring others over Himself
Christ laid down His life
Seeking nothing else
Than to honor and uplift mankind
So committed to this cause was He
He loved the foulest who were spiritually blind
He loved the Pharisees
Who were full of themselves religiously
He loved the tax collectors
Who only collected money
He loved the prostitutes
Who sold themselves for survival
He loved the desperate
Uplifting them and giving revival
He loved the adulteress woman
Who sought things that could never satisfy
Though when she was alone did cry
The wife who had five husbands
And was shacked up out of wedlock
Christ even loved His accusers
When they were in a disagreeing deadlock
Christ loved kings, princes, and noble men
Though he truly knew their struggles
And what was within them
He nurtured people despite their agenda
He loved wholeheartedly
Showing Himself bold and tender
Saul, a devout Jew, thought himself
To be obeying and serving God
While killing Christians
Christ visited him, knocking him to the ground
Suddenly even to this religious murderer
The love of God did abound
After which he put his anger down
Took up the gospel of love in a new sound
Endearing enemies
Loving everybody
This is what Christ was about
Overcoming evil with good
Transforming people and nations within
As a leader should
God help us in this hour
To use and apply similar methods
To rectify wrongs
Appeal to hearts
Rid ourselves of accusation
And throwing verbal darts
Help us depart from dehumanizing
Empower us to win our enemies
Give us divine strategies
Holy initiatives with supernatural wisdom
Enable us to take in the earth dominion
Not by weapons of war
On the contrary, help us believe for more
Even internal rehabilitation and transformation
Whereby God can enter in
And make our enemies a new creation
New inside and out
Ending strife and modeling life
This is what we should be about.

Paul Davis is a life coach (relational & professional), worldwide minister, and change master. Paul is the author of several books including Breakthrough for a Broken Heart; Adultery: 101 Reasons Not to Cheat; Are You Ready for True Love; Stop Lusting & Start Living; Waves of God; Supernatural Fire; Poems that Propel the Planet; and God vs. Religion.

Paul's compassion for people & passion to travel has taken him to over 50 countries of the world where he has had a tremendous impact. Paul has served in many war-torn, impoverished and tsunami stricken regions of the earth. His organization Dream-Maker Ministries is building dreams, breaking limitations and reviving nations.

Paul's Breakthrough Seminars inspire, revive, awaken, impregnate with purpose, impart the fire of desire, catapult people into a new level of self-awareness, facilitate destiny discovery and dream fulfillment.

Contact Paul to minister, speak at your event or for life coaching: RevivingNations@yahoo.com, 407-284-1705.

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