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Tip 1 There is something that is completely liberating and that is to be happy, in love with who you are and very content to be single. Many people dont find this state, many people are not happy but on the search for a partner all the time. Not many people reach a state where they are so connected with who they are and their purpose that they are simply content to let God bring them a partner. Be sure you get to this state before you look for a partner.

Tip 2 Dress conservative. Men are driven wild by their need to have sex, ladies you have no idea what shorts skirts and low hanging tops do on the average man. As a Christian male I have to tell you it takes a very close and anointed walk with God to stop masturbation and its this constant sperm production in man that makes him a predator looking for a lady that he can conquer. Without the male sex drive there would be a whole lot less couples in the world.

So if you want to be considered a lady my lady friends, make sure you dress in really nice dresses but make sure your breasts are covered up as there is no princess on earth that does not dress like a future queen and any girl dressing like a tart will be treated by one by the males that approach her.

We could all learn something from the Muslim women in this regard. They are such a pleasure to look at and converse with as are Indian Hindu women in Saris which have vibrant color and individuality but also are always conservative.

There are many wonderful clothes that a lady can wear and many ways to be attractive in ways that do not need money.

Tip 3 Did you know most men spend the majority of their time with prostitutes simply getting things off their chest and speaking? Being a good listener to a male on a date and asking heartfelt questions to getting male to open up is such a wonderful and liberating thing for male. Males like to be respected and in the Bible there is an instruction for women to respect their husbands.

Listening is a selfless act and its an art form. You can have plenty of practice with your female friends, try and transform your life and ask your male friends questions and get to listening.

Tip 4 Males like to know that you care. This might be as simple as a gift or dropping by his work one day un announced and going right up to him and kissing him in front of all his work colleagues. My wife came to work one day dressing really nice in an outfit and had organized a baby sitter and told me we were going out to dinner and when all the men were looking at her in her stunning new dress she grabbed me and gave me a kiss like a wedding day kiss. I have since lost my wife but I have never forgotten that feeling and that day as I felt like the luckiest man alive.

Matthew fellowships in a Salvation Army church and has preached on a number of occasions. He is being trained up by the Lord to be a gifted teacher and writes new articles each week here on this site. He is Pentecostal in his giftings and yet comes from a traditional Baptist background and is open to addressing any church in Australia that would like him to preach or share with their congregation.

Matthew is the author of a new book called The Musings of a Mad Prophet which is a collection of articles on mental illness, divorce and many helpful Christian subjects. He shares his life, his breakdowns, his marriage collapse and many helpful insights in a large format 264 page book. He will encourage you, inspire you and the Holy Spirit might convict you in his writings and would be happy to hear from you via email. His book is available from here.

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